you know what? I totally agree with you. love is not blind. because when you love someone, you MUST see him. everything of him. either way, is not love. could be affection. but definitely not love. that's why, even if it hurts, I did the same thing Tara did when I couldn't pretend not to see how he was destroying himself. I cared for him, I still do, and I probably always will. The only thing that's left is the hope that someday he'll understand that I didn't give up on him because I didn't love him enough. I decided to let him follow the path he chose for himself because I love him too much and I can't tolerate the fact that I wanted him to change for me. Someday he'll change for himself, because he won't like what he sees anymore, and that day he'll know. and we'll be together. Thank you so much for this, I really needed to open up.
And, by the way, I love all of your stories...can I befriend you?
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Date: 2007-07-05 11:04 am (UTC)I totally agree with you.
love is not blind.
because when you love someone, you MUST see him.
everything of him.
either way, is not love.
could be affection.
but definitely not love.
that's why, even if it hurts, I did the same thing Tara did when I couldn't pretend not to see how he was destroying himself.
I cared for him, I still do, and I probably always will.
The only thing that's left is the hope that someday he'll understand that I didn't give up on him because I didn't love him enough.
I decided to let him follow the path he chose for himself because I love him too much and I can't tolerate the fact that I wanted him to change for me.
Someday he'll change for himself, because he won't like what he sees anymore, and that day he'll know.
and we'll be together.
Thank you so much for this, I really needed to open up.
And, by the way, I love all of your stories...can I befriend you?